Self Esteem/Confidence Coaching
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When we coach you we:
- first help you to understand the crucial issues that give you the most leverage for positive change
- we then teach you NLP tools that allow you to manage your inner world and find the thinking styles that will work best to achieve what you want
People often say “I just want to be more confident.” In the coaching session we would establish where you want to have this confidence.
To do
- Decide you are worth it!
- Read why Passion Pumpkin can help
- Contact Passion Pumpkin now!
NLP enables people to change their thinking to generate powerful feelings (states) that overwhelm the old patterns of thinking. Confidence and self esteem are things that grow quickly when you take action.
When we talk about Self Esteem here we are talking about it in terms of Self Acceptance – valuing, even loving yourself (yes, why not!) so that you can give more of yourself in any situation.
Deciding to truly accept yourself is a massive step forward for you – believe me. Most people just don't; and that comes out in all kinds of neurotic, self defeating behaviours. Shy, bullying, arrogant, deceitful, doormats, martyrs, workaholics etc. - they are all operating from low self esteem that springs from negative self judgement.
In our sessions together we begin by establishing “what you really want.” This is really important because very often what you really want is obscured by the very fact that you have low confidence/self esteem.
The aim of this coaching is to:
- change the way you feel about yourself
- change your behaviour
- change your results
4 Core NLP Presuppositions:
- Everyone has the resources they need or can acquire them.
- People make the best choices they can at the time.
- Human behaviour is purposeful.
- If you want to understand, act!
Who do you need to be to meet your true goals?
With coaching you learn to pump up and celebrate your positives and take the lessons from the negatives then let them go.
A good coach directs our thinking by asking the kind of questions that cut to the heart of the matter and move us forward. We get to see the 360° picture at last and then we can decide on appropriate goals and action.
Coaching answers the basic question "how can I be better?"
Coaching enables people to move forward on their own - it is self generative and focuses on the present and the future. Like a good teacher a good coach is always working to become redundant.
Moving positively towards a future we really deserve ... requires us to take the first step.