Relationship Coaching
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It’s over, there is no going back.
So how can you repair the damage to your self esteem and move on? Click here to go to Self Esteem coaching.
To do
- Read more about NLP
- Decide to improve your relationships NOW!
- Contact Passion Pumpkin
The Passion Pumpkin coaching sessions are designed to help you:
- get clear about what you want
- understand the underlying issues
- reveal more choices
- change your thinking
- set a strong intention to take positive action for change
During the sessions we work towards finding the solutions that fit you best and give you the tools and insights that will enable you to change your input, and how you feel about you.
Our passion is to help you move forward to create what you really want.
Come along for a free initial consultation to assess your situation.
What are the issues that keep coming up? There is a lot of information that you already know that we can use to redirect your thinking. NLP recognises that we run patterns of behaviour unconsciously and, when we become conscious of it, we can change it.
NLP key principles:
- Awareness (noticing what’s happening.)
- Outcomes (what do you want?)
- Tap into new thinking, states and intentions.
- Take action (do something different)
- Assess effects of action, take more action.
NLP is always outcome focussed; it
- reconnects you with your wisdom and strengths
- reframes mistakes/negatives
- creates new choices
- prepares us to take new action.
“Do I want peace or do I always have to say my piece?
Very often when I work with people (or listen in on couples arguing) I discover that they are not taking responsibility for building the relationship. They blame, criticise, or they absolutely have to be right or get the last word in. No they don’t … oh yes they do.
There is also the common situation that the two people in the relationship want different things – but they’ve never communicated this. They have assumed “you must want what I want.”
A useful question is “are you building your relationship by small affirming actions or are you destroying it by small actions? Think of it as a cable, beginning as two thin threads, becoming thicker and stronger, strengthened by many strands of loving affirmation over time. Is your cable too weak to support you?
There are some fundamental things that a loving and supportive relationship has to have, things like:
- love
- trust
- commitment
- humour
- acceptance
- joy
- gratitude